What If? How to Break the Cycle.
What if? Two small words that can refocus a mind in a heart beat. Some Theoretical Physicists believe in the possibility of an " alternate reality" within the giant cosmic computer, that runs on What If scenarios. Where synchronicity offers us pivotal choices , too often disguised as ordinary moments, What Ifs can be traced back to an event surrounded by regret. Sometimes the regret is for an action taken, or not taken. Sometimes the regret lies in the inability to wrap our minds around the choices others made at our expense or so it would seem. Cruelty is hard to fathom. Forgiveness can be hard to find. The wounding belief may stay implanted a long time, and it doesn't really matter whether it was a bully, or a best friend, or a family member who helped you to form a mis belief about yourself. In the end, it still forms scar tissue, and it's these scars that are susceptible to What If thinking. It is the oldest of scars that are being cleared and healed at this time in our Ascension process. What If "they" hadn't done, said, acted like that? What if someone had stepped in and protected me? What if I'd grown up in another home, place, culture? What if?? Will drive you slowly crazy, if you indulge in the game too long. For that's what it is at the end of the day, an old 3D mind game designed to keep us not only tied up in knots of regret, but so focused on the past that we forget to manifest a brighter future. What if is detrimental to our mental, emotional, spiritual and physical bodies, & can kill us if we stay in that mentality for too long. The longer we play What If, the more we deplete ourself, our energy, our natural Lightness of Being. If you have not already, allow yourself the honour of becoming the Hero or Heroine of your own story, instead of thinking of yourself as the victim of someone else's tale. Honour the strength, fortitude and courage your child self had to continue to pick itself up and find a way to move forward. Thank that inner child, then Look around your life right now. Where are the people who anchor Love? Go to them, for in, them lies an appreciation for who you are on multiple levels right Now. For "proof" of your Lovability. Look for the place in your life where Love exists right now, and dive in for a long, long hug. It sounds so simple and yet this is big medicine. Bring a box of tissue, you might cry, just let whatever comes up, come up and float away to be healed. Let it out of your body. Remember, your not necessarily looking to retell your story, you're looking to absorb some Love. To remind yourself, you are safe Now, you are cherished Now, you are worthy Now, You Never Have to Live That Again. Then let the memories float out of your body and into a wave of Love for transformation. Make room in your body for more Love in the Future. If you're not a Hugger, find a Loving place to have a conversation that focuses on your likeable features Now, then let them in. Believe in your likeable qualities. What If can not exist in this energy, for the illusion of it's 3D appeal looses effect when we embrace all the good in our Lives right Now, and acknowledge we can not change the Past. We are all survivors of Soul Sabotage in one form or another, it's what we do with the next chapter that will determine what kind of a tale will be told. One of regret, or one of Triumph. It's all up to you.